A Quiet Hello

I may not reply, but I read every message that reaches me. Silence doesn’t mean it went unnoticed.

On the rare chance I do decide to reply, make sure the email address you leave is correct. If you don’t hear from me within a day, you probably won’t. That doesn’t mean I disliked what you said or that your message didn’t matter.

I’m simply very private about opening my life beyond this website to people I don’t know. This space lets me share parts of myself on my own terms, and I’d appreciate that boundary being respected.

Cruel, threatening, or deliberately fucked-up messages aren’t going to ruin my day. They’ll get a shrug, a delete, and nothing more.

I do not sell, trade, rent, or hand your email address to advertisers, companies, or anyone else willing to throw money at me, and I do not use it for marketing. Your information is not a product to me.

I’m happy to hear what you’d like to see on this site. Ask me questions. Tell me what you think I should expand on. Tell me what helped you, what made something harder, or what you wish I had talked about.

Suggestions are welcome. Instructions on who I should be are not. This website exists because I chose to be honest about who I am. That part isn’t up for editing.